When it comes to the value system of emotions like love .
The nature of needing something or some one has been distorted by man.
Through out time.
Love today notates a need or an emotional dependence on people or things to know what love feels like.
When you know you love some one.
For a reason like they way they are,
Or how something is .
You don’t make your self a slave to them or it .
Your not dependent on it .
So how do you change the value system of love.
Language .
Speak to people, not about or in around about way.